You are in the right place if you are ready to make some significant changes in your life. Particularly if you are fed up of the same old patterns repeating themselves time and time again.
From experience, I know its not simply the situations you find yourself in that cause you stress but the way that you react to them. If you could choose to respond more positively and less emotionally to what happens in your life then think how much better it would be for you. Just imagine what this would enable you to achieve and contribute.